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2008 Survey Results: Cost & Timing of Adoption The results of our AF reader survey are in: country-specific information about wait times, and the average costs of domestic and international adoptions.
WEB EXTRA: See survey results from previous years at adoptivefamilies.com/costandtiming.
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The Whole Truth Expert advice and conversation starters to help you deal with negative information about your child's birthparents in a positive, age-appropriate way. |
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Clip-and-Save Guide: Post-Adoption Paperwork From name changes to Social Security numbers--everything you need to know about the paperwork you'll have to complete after you adopt internationally.
Plus: The Hospital Experience The legal process for domestic adopters, by Peter J. Wiernicki, Esq.
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It's in Their Genes Nature or nurture? New research reveals which personality traits are biologically-based, and which are shaped by a child's environment--and what it all means for parents.
Plus: What's the Deal with DNA Testing? How genetic testing can help families make connections and learn about their child's ancestry.
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GROWING UP ADOPTEDParenting tips and advice for every age and stage
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Ages 0-2: Feed Me! by Sarah Springer, M.D.
Formulas, nutrition, and feeding--everything you need to know about filling your child's tummy.
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Ages 3-5: New Kid on the Block By JoAnne Solchany, Ph.D.
Adding to your family again? Ease the transition for your preschooler by being prepared for new-sibling anxiety.
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Ages 6-8: Money Worries by Joni S. Mantell, LCSWThe recession is a grown-up problem, but kids may be having money-related concerns of their own.
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Ages 9-12: Fantasies of Fame By Marybeth Lambe, M.D.Help your preteen deal with feelings of loss triggered by celebrity adoptions.
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Ages 13+: Searching for Self by Debbie B. RileyThe Internet can be a great tool for finding identity and networking with other adopted teens.
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DEPARTMENTS
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Adoptalk
• Kids (and dogs) learn that home is where you make it, in a new family film.
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• The latest adoption news, plus postings from blogs we love.
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• Readers and their kids test skin-care products made for little ones.
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• Our picks for novels to curl up with this winter.
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From the Editor
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Letters
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Ask AFMelamine testing guidelines for children adopted from China; talking about race with your child; accessing foster files; and more.
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Find an event for your family to attend.
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Living with Diversity by Billy Cuchens
One family had faith that an African-American church would help their son take pride in his identity.
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Talking Points by Victoria Moreland
When her daughter's friends ask about adoption, a mom wonders if it's her story to tell.
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About Birthparents by Amy Ford
An unexpected meeting between an adoptive mother and birthmother leads to a surprising connection.
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Reviews
Children's books to help ease separation anxiety; a graphic memoir of adopting from Russia.
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At Home by Kelly James-Enger
Although there's no physical resemblance, a mom finds herself reflected in her child.
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The Experts
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Open Adoption by Kathleen Silber
How to prepare for calls from potential birthmothers.
WEB EXTRA: Read more expert answers from Kathleen Silber on our Open Adoption Expert page. |
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Parenting Transracially by Deborah Johnson
Living as a multicultural family, and encouraging loved ones to join in.
WEB EXTRA: Find more articles by Deborah Johnson on our Transracial Adoption Expert page. |
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Adoption Medicine by Deborah Borchers, M.D.
Choosing a doctor for your newly adopted child.
WEB EXTRA: Read more articles by Dr. Borchers and other adoption medicine specialists at adoptivefamilies.com/medical. |
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Older-Child Adoption by Gregory C. Keck, Ph.D.
Help your child overcome anxiety and begin to bond. |
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NEW EXPERT! Single Parenting by Lee Varon, Ph.D.
It's OK to ask for help as a new parent--here's how. |
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